Pre-Marital Counseling

As you prepare for one of the most significant milestones in your life, our goal is to help you and your partner build a strong foundation for a successful, lasting marriage.

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Premarital Counseling in Atlanta: Building a Strong Foundation for Your Marriage

Welcome to Sea Change Psychotherapy, where we specialize in providing compassionate, evidence-based premarital counseling to couples in Atlanta. As you prepare for one of the most significant milestones in your life, our goal is to help you and your partner build a strong foundation for a successful, lasting marriage. Through our tailored premarital counseling services, including the Prepare/Enrich program and the Gottman Method, we are here to support you in creating a deep, enduring connection that will carry you through all of life’s challenges and joys.

Why Premarital Counseling?

Marriage is a beautiful journey, but it also comes with its own set of challenges. Premarital counseling is a proactive step that allows couples to address important topics, develop communication skills, and align their expectations before saying “I do.” By engaging in premarital counseling, you and your partner can:

  • Enhance Communication: Learn how to effectively communicate your needs, desires, and concerns with your partner.
  • Resolve Conflicts: Develop healthy conflict resolution strategies to navigate disagreements and avoid misunderstandings.
  • Deepen Understanding: Gain a deeper understanding of each other’s values, beliefs, and expectations for the future.
  • Strengthen Commitment: Solidify your commitment to each other by addressing potential issues before they become significant problems.
  • Build a Strong Foundation: Establish a solid foundation of trust, respect, and love that will support your marriage for years to come.

Premarital counseling is not just for couples experiencing difficulties; it is an opportunity for all couples to invest in their relationship and ensure a strong start to their marriage.

Our Approach to Premarital Counseling

At Sea Change Psychotherapy, we offer a comprehensive approach to premarital counseling that is tailored to the unique needs of each couple. Our counselors are trained in evidence-based methods, including the Prepare/Enrich program and the Gottman Method, both of which are highly respected in the field of relationship counseling.

Prepare/Enrich Program

The Prepare/Enrich program is one of the most widely used and trusted tools for premarital counseling. This program is designed to help couples identify their strengths and growth areas as they prepare for marriage. Through a personalized assessment, Prepare/Enrich provides insights into key relationship areas such as:

  • Communication: Understanding how you and your partner communicate and identifying areas for improvement.
  • Conflict Resolution: Learning effective strategies for resolving conflicts in a way that strengthens your relationship.
  • Financial Management: Discussing financial goals, spending habits, and how to manage money together.
  • Sexual Expectations: Addressing expectations and concerns about intimacy and sexual relationship.
  • Family Dynamics: Exploring each partner’s family background and how it may influence your relationship.
  • Spiritual Beliefs: Understanding and respecting each other’s spiritual or religious beliefs and how they will play a role in your marriage.

The Prepare/Enrich assessment is followed by guided counseling sessions where our therapists help you and your partner explore these areas in depth. By the end of the program, you will have a clear understanding of your relationship dynamics and practical tools to build a strong, healthy marriage.

The Gottman Method

The Gottman Method is another cornerstone of our premarital counseling approach. Developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, this method is based on over 40 years of research with thousands of couples. The Gottman Method focuses on strengthening the positive aspects of your relationship while providing strategies to manage conflict and prevent relationship breakdown.

Key components of the Gottman Method include:

  • Building Love Maps: Developing a deep understanding of each other’s world by learning about your partner’s dreams, fears, and aspirations.
  • Nurturing Fondness and Admiration: Cultivating a culture of appreciation, respect, and affection in your relationship.
  • Turning Toward Each Other: Enhancing emotional connection by responding to your partner’s bids for attention, affection, and support.
  • Managing Conflict: Learning effective ways to manage conflict, including recognizing and addressing perpetual issues and solvable problems.
  • Creating Shared Meaning: Building a sense of shared purpose and meaning in your relationship, including rituals, goals, and values.

Our therapists use the Gottman Method to help you develop the skills and habits that lead to long-term relationship success. By focusing on both the strengths and challenges in your relationship, the Gottman Method provides a balanced approach to premarital counseling that prepares you for the realities of married life.

What to Expect in Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling at Sea Change Psychotherapy is designed to be a collaborative, supportive process. During your sessions, you and your partner will engage in meaningful conversations, guided by one of our experienced therapists. Here’s what you can expect:

  • Initial Assessment: We begin with an assessment of your relationship, using tools like the Prepare/Enrich questionnaire and Gottman assessments. This helps us understand your relationship dynamics and identify areas to focus on during counseling.
  • Goal Setting: Together, we will set goals for your premarital counseling. These goals may include improving communication, resolving specific concerns, or simply strengthening your connection.
  • Personalized Sessions: Each counseling session is tailored to your unique needs as a couple. We will explore important topics such as communication, conflict resolution, family planning, financial management, and more.
  • Skills Development: Throughout the counseling process, you will learn practical skills that you can apply in your marriage. These skills will help you navigate the ups and downs of married life with confidence and resilience.
  • Ongoing Support: Even after your premarital counseling sessions are complete, we are here to support you. Many couples find it helpful to check in with their therapist periodically as they transition into married life.

Why Choose Sea Change Psychotherapy for Premarital Counseling?

At Sea Change Psychotherapy, we are committed to helping you and your partner build a marriage that thrives. Here’s why couples in Atlanta choose us for premarital counseling:

  • Evidence-Based Approaches: We use proven methods like the Prepare/Enrich program and the Gottman Method to ensure that our counseling is effective and tailored to your needs.
  • Experienced Therapists: Our therapists are highly trained and experienced in working with couples. We understand the unique challenges that couples face as they prepare for marriage, and we are here to guide you through them.
  • Personalized Care: We recognize that every couple is different. Our approach to premarital counseling is customized to fit your relationship’s specific strengths and challenges.
  • Compassionate Support: We provide a warm, supportive environment where you and your partner can explore your relationship with openness and honesty. Our goal is to help you feel confident and prepared for the journey ahead.

Start Your Journey to a Strong Marriage Today

Marriage is a lifelong journey, and premarital counseling is a valuable first step in building a strong, healthy relationship. Whether you are newly engaged or simply want to ensure that you and your partner are on the same page before tying the knot, Sea Change Psychotherapy is here to help.

Contact us today to schedule a consultation or to learn more about our premarital counseling services. Together, we can help you create the foundation for a marriage that lasts a lifetime.

Therapy Method Information

Below is more information on some of the types of therapy available for this condition.

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Emotion-focused therapy (EFT), developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, is grounded in the understanding that emotions are at the core of human experience.

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Pamela Madsen

Pamela Madsen

MS, LPC, NCC, RYT-200 (she, her)

Anna Griggers

Anna Griggers

MS, APC (she/her)

Melissa Velliquette

Melissa Velliquette

Ed.S., LPC (she/her)